How Language Changes

There is a book out:

Team of Rivals: The Political Genius of Abraham Lincoln by Doris Kearns Goodwin

I have never read her but I have seen her in documentaries and she is wonderful. She was talking about the book with Jon Stewart. Lincoln said "It is better to have your enemies in your tent pissing out than to have them outside pissing in". In another passage, she describes a letter between two civil war generals who were friends, and this is not a gay thing (If you want gay from that era, read Walt Whitman). Anyway, the one writes to the other "I cannot wait until we meet again by the lake, hold hands and engage in gentle intercourse".

In 2007 if I get an offer of gentle intercourse from another man, my response would begin "While I am certainly flattered....."

The famous line "It is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all" was written by Tennyson regarding the death of a male friend.

No, he did not hang out with a steelworker, a guy in native headdress, a guy in leather chaps....

Thomas.